Women and Tabarruj

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"TABARRUJ"

This word is too synonim for women. Women are born to be attracted to fashion. Me myself also attracted to the fashion. Hehe. That's why there are too many gorgeous  clothes and outfits that are designed for women. But, we as the Muslim's women have to ensure that our style is permissible in Shari'ah. Islam allow us to be more fashionable but tabarruj is prohibited.

Do you actually know what is tabarruj?Tabarruj is actually when a woman show her beauty to the ajnabi until the man attracted to her. Cover the aurat but in the same time her style is tabarruj is not counted as covering the aurat. Islam told us to covering the aurat and no tabarruj in the same time. It is very useless if we are covering the aurat but men still attracted to us. We ourselves will get sin because of it and the aim that Islam told us to covering the aurat is not achieved. :(
Nauzubillahiminzalik. May Allah away us from that.

Tabarruj

In the Quran al-Karim, Allah mentioned about the prohibition of tabarruj:

• Surah An-Nur (24:60)

 And women of post-menstrual age who have no desire for marriage - there is no blame upon them for putting aside their outer garments [but] not displaying adornment. But to modestly refrain [from that] is better for them. And Allah is Hearing and Knowing.

This verses told us that even the menaphouse women are prohibited to tabarruj, so it is more prohibited to women that still young and beautiful. :)

Categories of Tabarruj

• wearing the thin and tight dress  

Islam told us to cover our aurat not wrap the aurat. But most of our women believe that by wearing those thin and tight dress, they already covering their aurat. To all of my beloved sisters, we have to wear a loose and not thin dress. This can prevent us from any of the pleasure seeking guys that trying to take advantages on us. For sure, our dignity will be protected :).  

Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:

Asma, daughter of AbuBakr, entered upon the Messenger of Allah () wearing thin clothes. The Messenger of Allah () turned his attention from her. He said: O Asma', when a woman reaches the age of menstruation, it does not suit her that she displays her parts of body except this and this, and he pointed to her face and hands.
Abu Dawud said: This is a mursal tradition (i.e. the narrator who transmitted it from 'Aishah is missing) Khalid b. Duraik did not see 'Aishah.

•  impose perfume until attracts  the non-mahram  

Everyone love to smell the sweet-scented. Me myself never heard that there is some person that love the stink and smelly except there is but that is another story. So, please don't care about that. Huhu. This doesn't mean that Islam prohibited wearing the perfume. Islam even encourages the Muslims to wear perfume espescially when they want to perform the prayer. Unfotunetely, this is only dedicated to men. Women are proposed to not wearing any of perfume with the strong scent because ajnabi easily can be attracted by the scent. Our Prophet Muhammad PBUH mentioned that :

Anyone women wearing perfume then passes through a people that they smell it, then she has committed adultery." [HR. Imam al-Nasaaiy]

•  show off the beauty to the ajnabi    

Women are naturally beauty. So we don't have to put any make-up like eye shadow, mascara, lipstick that will totally doesn't show our natural beauty. It is not fault to put any make-up on our face but please be make sure that it is not too heavy. You have to believe me when I say that you are already without putting any make-up. Ops, sorry. You are not beauty but you are totally gorgeous. So why you still putting your make-up. Just leave it. But if you still want to put make-up, please choose a natural one. :)  

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